During a home visit recently, a new mom described how calm and simple her birth was as she gazed dreamily at her sweet, new baby nursing. She shared that she’d opted to be induced, and I don’t know if my eyes narrowed, or my energy changed, or if I inadvertently showed some judgment or discomfort on my face, but she quickly defended her choice.
Just in general, I often share about why after my first birth in the hospital, I opted for subsequent home births attended by midwives, how I caught my son by myself, my natural-term breastfeeding experiences, because I am proud of those things. Sometimes, personal approaches, choices and experiences can be construed as indirect judgment upon those who have divergent experiences. That’s how I was interpreting or reading into this interaction.
Around the time I’d gone to visit this dyad, I saw the graphic, as I’m sure many of you may have, of a sketched pitocin bag and text that reads: “Holidays are not a medical reason for induction.” Indeed not! In the case of this mother, she was well-informed and she felt in control of her decision about how she would birth her child. Where there is autonomy and informed choice, there should be no judgment or scrutiny.
I’ve been exposed to several of the faces of the kaleidoscope of reproductive health: as an adolescent, as a birthing patient in a hospital, as a home birther, as someone going through IVF as a prospective gestational carrier, and in all of those experiences, where I felt heard, held, safe, where my autonomy was honored, was in the care of my home birth midwives.
It’s why I was so pleased to learn that midwifery was recently inscribed on the Representative List of the Intangible Cultural Heritage of Humanity. Securing this recognition is not only well-deserved by the many, many generations of midwives who have supported and continue to support healthy families, but essential in order to safeguard those in the practice of protecting fundamental human rights.
Please enjoy this beautiful video by UNESCO honoring midwives.